Making New Friends from Foreign Countries

Having been all over the continental United States, I can assure you that there is just no place like Texas. Everything’s bigger in Texas, right? It’s true. The people are friendlier, happier, and it’s easy to feel welcome amongst total strangers. You have to be careful where you eat though; the meal portions are also bigger in Texas than anywhere else I’ve ever been.

I met someone while I was out last night, and they were from Northern Ireland, of all places. I had so many questions to ask, but I will admit, I was mostly inspired to hear them speak because of their foreign accent. They said they were spending a week in Texas, and that they came here for a friend’s wedding. I wish I had friends getting married overseas! Maybe one day, but for now, I’ll enjoy the opportunity to save some cash.

We started talking about life in Northern Ireland, and how it tends to be mostly cloudy. Even though they were visiting in the middle of winter, it was a beautiful, warm evening. It’s hard to believe we were both speaking English at times, but for the most part, I could understand everything they were saying. We shared stories of what it was like growing up in our own countries, and overall it was an enjoyable discussion. I can put on a southern drawl if I want to, but I would trade my Texas slang in a heartbeat to be able to speak with an Irish accent like the one they had. I didn’t realize how slowly Texans speak until it was mentioned in our conversation. I couldn’t help but laugh after that.

It was their first time in the state of Texas. As a native born Texan, I was eager to share what I could about the culture and recommend the best places to visit. If you’ve ever been to Texas, you know that the barbeque and the hospitality are two of our most celebrated features. Since they already had tried the barbeque, I decided to share a little generosity. I bought the next round of drinks and asked them what they thought was the craziest part about Texas.

I should have expected it, but I was caught off guard. Apparently, my new friend came to Texas expecting to see lots of wild west saloons, horseback riders with lassos, and guns on everyone’s hips. There’s plenty of that stuff around the state, but it’s not something you see in the middle of the city. It sounded like they were prepared to visit a state full of outlaws with criminal defense lawyers on speed-dial. Thankfully, there were no shootouts or rattlesnakes, and we were able to enjoy the evening in peace.

I’ll have to visit Northern Ireland sometime soon. If the people there are anything like my new friend, I’m sure it would be a lot of fun. Besides, I heard that the pubs across the pond are a great place to hang out, enjoy some food, and make new friends. All I need now is a passport and a plane ticket.

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